About
Hi, I’m Carolina, and I’ve walked the path you’re on right now. Divorce isn’t just about legalities and paperwork—it’s about navigating a whirlwind of emotions, responsibilities, and adjustments, especially when you’re also juggling a demanding career and the needs of little people.
When I found myself at the crossroads of ending a 20-year marriage with two young children in tow, I felt like I was losing pieces of myself in the chaos. Fear and anxiety clouded my judgment, and every decision felt like a monumental task.
It was a friend and a coach who became my guiding lights through the storm.
With her support, I learned to tame my anger and approach decisions with a clear mind and a logical heart. Instead of letting emotions dictate my actions, I found a way to communicate calmly and respectfully with my ex-husband, laying the groundwork for a co-parenting relationship that prioritises our children’s well-being above all else.
With my coach I explored every aspect of the divorce process, from legal proceedings to financial arrangements, ensuring that my voice was heard and my children’s needs were met every step of the way.
My coach helped me see beyond my own pain, fostering empathy and understanding for the man I had shared my life with for two decades.
Today, I’m grateful for the foundation of respect and cooperation my ex-husband and I have built, allowing us to navigate co-parenting with grace and dignity.
My journey through divorce has ignited a passion within me to help others facing similar challenges find their own path to healing and empowerment.
So if you’re feeling lost or overwhelmed, know that you’re not alone.
I’m here to walk beside you, offering guidance, support, and a listening ear as you navigate this journey of rediscovery and transformation. Together, we’ll navigate the twists and turns of divorce with strength, resilience, and a renewed sense of hope for the future.
Contact me for a free 30-minute consultation, we’ll discuss your concerns and see if Evolve and Shine coaching is the right fit for your unique situation.
Alternatively join us at one of our free Meetup divorce recovery groups for more support.
My Passion
As a certified divorce coach, my passion lies in guiding parents through one of life’s most challenging transitions with empathy, clarity, and empowerment. I understand firsthand the complexities and emotional turmoil that accompany divorce, especially when children are involved. My mission is to provide unwavering support, practical guidance, and a safe space for parents to navigate the difficult decisions and emotions that arise during this journey.
Through personalized coaching sessions, I help parents clarify their goals, values, and priorities, empowering them to make informed decisions that prioritize the well-being of their children and themselves. From managing conflict and negotiating agreements to fostering effective communication and rebuilding a sense of identity post-divorce, I am dedicated to equipping parents with the tools and resilience needed to navigate this chapter of their lives with grace and strength.
Together, we’ll rewrite your story from one of pain and uncertainty to one of empowerment and growth, ensuring that your journey through divorce becomes a catalyst for positive transformation and a brighter future for you and your family.
My Goals
My goal as a divorce coach is to empower parents navigating the challenging terrain of divorce to emerge stronger, more resilient, and better equipped to co-parent effectively and peacefully. Through personalized guidance and support, I aim to help parents prioritize the well-being of their children, navigate conflicts with grace and integrity, and rebuild their lives with purpose and resilience. By fostering clear communication, fostering mutual respect, and providing practical strategies for managing the emotional and logistical challenges of divorce, my aim is to guide parents toward a brighter, more harmonious future for themselves and their families. Together, we’ll navigate this journey with compassion, clarity, and courage, ensuring that you emerge from divorce not just surviving, but thriving.
Work With Me
I support the parents of Christchurch in person and those New Zealand wide via Zoom or phone.
Please contact me for a free 30-minute consultation, we’ll discuss your concerns and see if Evolve and Shine coaching is the right fit for your unique situation.
Join us at one of our free Meetup divorce recovery groups for more support